DR. MITCH PsyD & LISA LIFE COACH

 PRIVATE MARRIAGE & COUPLES WORKSHOPS/SEMINARS/RETREATS

35 Years of Co-Leading our Individual & Marriages/Couples Private Workshops/Seminars/Retreats

       *Please Call or Text our Universal Number:                     NorthEast/Mid-Atlantic/WEST-Midwest                           516.824.6790                 

**RELATIONSHIPS in CRISIS ** RAPID RECOVERY

**HOPE is STRONGER than FEAR**

      ***CALL FOR FREE CONSULT***     

 *MARRIAGE & COUPLES WORKSHOPS

 *Alcohol/Addictions*Narcissism*Infidelity

 *SEX ADDICTION *MOOD DISORDERS                       *INTIMACY  *CO-DEPENDENCY

       *PANIC & STRESS DISORDERS

        *SELF-SABOTAGE & HOW IT AFFECTS                      RELATIONSHIPS        

                                                                                             ***PRIVATE  ONLINE               WORKSHOP/SEMINARS/RETREATS            

 *COMMUNICATION SKILLS                   

*Parenting & Blending Families           

*ANGER & CONTROL*SELF-ESTEEM    *EMOTIONAL & PHYSCIAL ABUSE

*ANXIETY &  DEPRESSION             

*THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND              

                                                                                                                                         ***PRIVATE  ONLINE      WORKSHOP/SEMINARS/RETREATS

     

                                                                    ***COUPLES/MARRIAGE***                       WORKSHOP/SEMINARS/                    RETREATS                                                                                                    ***FREE   CONSULT***                                                                 

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   ***WE  ARE  OPENED***                     DAYS, EVENINGS,                           WEEKENDS               

*Same Day Appt's AVAILABLE**

Welcome; Start the journey now. The best is yet to come.

 ***OUR PRIVATE WORKSHOPS {ARE  NOT} TRADITIONAL COUNSELING***

 ****PRIVATE  WORKSHOPS  &  IN-HOME  RETREATS  & SEMINARS******

Providers

 ***RELATIONSHIPS IN CRISIS ** PROVIDING TWO PROFESSIONALS

***OPENED:  DAYS, EVE'S, WEEKENDS & SAME DAY APPT'S:

    ***RAPID RECOVERY   *POWERFUL   *COMPREHENSIVE

                            **CALL FOR FREE  CONSULTATION**                                                                                                ( BOTH of  YOU)  

   ***MARRIAGE/COUPLES WORKSHOP/SEMINARS  VS  TRADITIONAL COUPLES COUNSELING***

           1) ACCELERATES Your Healing Immediately (Pathway to Forgiveness) 

           2) TEACH & Provide Knowledge about your Relationship   

           3) DEMONSTRATE  & LEARN Communication (Couples Rules & Skills) 

           4) LEARN the ART of a Deeper Love (Intimacy, Sensitivity & Compassion)  

           5) LEARNING to Set Goals, Realistic Expectations & Boundaries        

           6) SPECIALITIES *Self-Esteem *Anger & Control *Co-Dependency *Alcohol/Addictions *Parenting                                              *Sexual & Emotional Intimacy *Infidelity *Honesty & Transparency *Narcissism *Emotional/Physical Abuse                                   *Anxiety & Depression *Stress *Blending Families *Breakdown of Communication            

.           7) Having  Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coaches  Co-Leading

                       *****RAPID  RECOVERY  COUPLES WORKSHOPS/SEMINARES****                                                                                                    A) Male and Female Perspective                                                                                                                                                                            B) Longer Private Workshops & Seminars (60 Min.)                                                                                                                                      C) Dr. Mitch & Lisa have over 35 years of Experience                                                                                                                                      D) High School Sweethearts that are trying to Practice what we Preach                                                                                                    E)  Interactive rather then Laid Back (Teaching & Demonstrating)                                                                                                            F) We are CARING Professional's who LOVE HELPING PEOPLE                                                                                                        G) Stay in the Present as opposed to Digging up all your Past

                8) DISCERNMENT Workshop (to Assess your Motivation & Commitment to your Relationship:                                                    Typically when one or both Parties aren't sure they want to Continue their Relationship).                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Dr. Mitch PsyD  (Doctorate Degree PsyD from Southern California University, MSW from Tulane University and a BA. in Psychology from Lehman/Hunter College)  and Lisa Couples/Relationship Life Coach & Marriage Specialist (Lehman/Hunter College) have worked as a Psychotherapist for over 35+ Years, Co-Leading all of our Private Workshops (presently both of us are working as Life Coaches). At this point, Dr. Mitch and Lisa are only doing TELEHEALTH SESSIONS ONLINE and therefore, OPENED DAYS, EVENINGS and WEEKENDS.

                       **SERVICES Provided and We Provide SEMINARS on any of these TOPICS  & more**

Deeper Love & IntimacyLow Self-Esteem-Self-WorthDepression & Anxiety
Anxiety & Panic attacksMarriage/Couples WorkshopsNarcissism-Borderline-Bi-Polar
Gaslighting-Love BombingAll AddictionsSubstance Abuse
Grief - Death & DyingLoss and LonelinessPorn Addiction-Social Media
Suicidal ThoughtsRelationships/ CouplesMarriages-Pre-Marriages
Parenting & Co-ParentingFamily & Blended Family issuesSpousal Abuse/Domestic Violence
Communication Skills & RulesTeenagers and ChildrenTrust & Infidelity & Honesty
Fears-Phobias-AnxietyObsessive Compulsive DisorderConfidence & Personal Power
Mindfulness & AwarenessSex Addiction & AbuseP.T.S.D. Trauma 
Self -Esteem & Inner PeaceThe Need for ATTENSIONTge Need for APPROVAL
LGBTQ IssuesWomen's IssuesAnger & Control Management
Co-DependencyMen's IssuesThe Art of Sensitivity/Compassion
Alcohol DependencyAssertivenessHealth & Medical
Eating DisordersDevelop A DEEPER LOVELetting Go & Healing Process

                                                                          

                                                                         *****INFIDELITY***

         **ONE OF OUR BIGGEST REFERRALS TO OUR PRATICE IS INFIDELITY, DISHONESTY & LACK OF TRANSPARENCY: We have realized that some Emotional and Physical Affairs are in fact, INFATUATIONS & or  LIMERENCE and therefore, limits the Person's Ability to Think and Reason Properly. It can make them Act Reckless and Out of Control. Therefore, we treat the Infatuation as an Addiction and Teach the ART OF DEEP LOVE

. *****In Addition, Reasons why people Cheat:  Out of Anger, Desire to get Revenge, Needs that are not being met, Loneliness, Boredom, Feelings of  being Neglected, Being Loved Bombed by the person who is Pursuing you, Sexual needs not being satisfied, or just the opportunity  presents itself. All in all, there are many reasons why people Cheat, not just one. We will help our Couples Learn why this has happened & Help our Couples Heal & Find the Pathway to Forgiveness, in order to move forward and try to find the Silver-Lining.                                                                                                                                         **Many of our Couples have overcome these Challenges & Now have a much better Relationship in so many ways.

***The Healing Process for Infidelity:

 This Process is Three Fold: 1) Taking Responsibility of One's Actions & Learning about why this happened, without Blaming the Relationship. 2) Being Sensitive, Compassionate, Empathic & Remorseful to Whom the Person who this Trauma was Committed on  3) Helping the Person Heal in Time & Learn the Art of Forgiveness. Its Almost the same as POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER: A Disorder in which a Person has Difficulty Recovering after Experiencing or Witnessing a Terrifying Event. This PTSD has Recurring Triggers which can last a very long time and which can bring back Memories of the Trauma accompanied by Intense Emotional and Physical Reactions. Feelings include Intense Anger, Hurt & Pain, Helplessness & Powerlessness, Shock, Despair & Hopelessness, Suicidal Ideation, Feelings that Lower our Self-Esteem & Confidence and More...

                                                                   ***NEW TERMINOLOGY:   

                          ***Love Bombing:  

Love Bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection.  It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes.  Psychologists have identified love bombing as a possible part of a cycle of abuse and have warned against it.

                             ***Gaslighting:

  Gaslighting is Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts and even their sanity (Preys on your Insecurities & Fears).  It is one of the worst forms of dirty fighting and it is used by both men and women. Gaslighting includes a variety of techniques, such as: *Pretending not to understand someone when you do *Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined *Questioning the other person's memory of events when they remember correctly *Pretending to forget what actually occurred when you actually remember *Denying promises that you know you made *Trivializing the other person's feelings as being too sensitive when their reaction is somewhat normal.

                                   ***Stonewalling:

A Defensive Mechanism where someone Emotionally shuts down and Withdraws from a conversation or interaction.                       It can involve refusing to Communicate, Answering questions, or Talking about an issue.

                                      ***Trauma Bonding:

 Trauma Bonding are Emotional bonds with an individual that arise from a recurring cyclical pattern of abuse perpetuated by intermittent reinforcement through rewards and punishments.  This process of forming trauma bonds is referred to as trauma bonding or traumatic bonding. This results when the abused person forms an unhealthy bond with the person that abuses them.  The abused person may develop sympathy for  the abusive person, which become reinforced by cycles of abuse, followed by remorse.

                                           ***Discernment Workshops:

   When Ending the Relationship is on the Table (by one of you or both of you).

  This is a Short Term Decision making Process, lasting anywhere between 1-5 Sessions. Our Workshops Goals are to have Greater Clarity & Confidence regarding the Future of  Your Marriage. This will be Based on a Deeper Understanding of what brought you to the point where Divorce is an Option. In Summary, Our Discernment Workshops Helps the Couple Determine Whether or Not they Should or Want to try to Save their Relationship. This Process Provides and Gives the Couple the Opportunity to be Heard, Understood and Talk about why they are Considering Leaving and Considering Staying. 

                                                 ***Best Friends:

       ***Most Important we believe Strongly that being Best Friends is the Key to Recovery of Your Deep and Loving Relationship. We therefore, Focus our Attention on being each others (BFF). We want you guys to be able to Support each other, be a Shoulder to cry on, help you through hard times, Celebrate your Achievements and Encourage you to be the Best you can Be. In Short, Someone that you can talk to about everything, and who makes you feel Comfortable without the Fear of Judgement.

                                        ***** NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER (NPD)

 **Some of the Characteristics (at least 5) Include:  *Overinflated sense of self-importance *Constant thoughts about being more successful, powerful, smart, loved  or attractive than others. *Feelings of  Superiority and desire to only associate with high-status people *Need for excessive admiration* Sense of entitlement *Willingness to take advantage of others to achieve goals *Lack of understanding and consideration for other people's feelings and needs *Arrogant or snobby behaviors and attitudes. However, we have been successful in teaching these people Sensitivity, Compassion and Empathy in order to be able to relate to your Feelings & Feel Your Feelings, which can lead to Positive Changes.                                                                               ***In Addition, Covert Narcissism is the introverted side of  NPD. These people experience the same insecurities as an Overt Narcissist, but internalizes their self-importance, often while hyper-focusing on their Need for Attention. They come across as Introverted, Self-Conscious and Insecure. 

                           ***COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN**MARRIAGE  RULES & SKILLS

             *****Remember, their are many Challenges, Problems & Issues that all Couples have, but its the Communication Process that Stays Constant Throughout ones Relationship, therefore, the Communication Process Must be Working Effectively.  With a Communication Breakdown, Couples Will Not be able to Resolve their Problems Successfully. 

                  ***OUR PRIVATE ACCELERATED COMPREHENSIVE PROGRAMS***

                         ***ESPECIALLY, Couples that have Been through Traditional Counseling                                                                                                                      & were GREATLY DISAPPOINTED***                                                                

          *********************************   PROGRAM FEES***********************************                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                           ****CALL  FOR  FREE CONSULTATION****                                                                                                                                   

      *****************************PLEASE CHOOSE YOUR PROGRAM**************************                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          ***** MARRIAGE/COUPLES  WORKSHOP*****

***INDIVIDUAL  INTAKE  SESSION:          $195  Each Person DR. MITCH or LISA

                                                                             OR                                                                                                                                            ***COUPLES  INTAKE SESSION:                    $275 TOTAL  Dr. MITCH PsyD

                                                                            THEN

***COUPLES WORKSHOP (45 Minutes):     $275  DR. MITCH PsyD                                                                                                 **INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS:                              $275   DR. MITCH or LISA

                                                                             OR                                                           

                              ******** ADVANCED PRIVATE WORKSHOP********

***RAPID RECOVERY COUPLES  WORKSHOP:    $195 Each Person  DR. MITCH & LISA                                                                 (TWO PROFESSIONALS - 45 Minutes)                 (Total $390)        (40 Years Experience)

***RAPID RECOVERY COUPLES  WORKSHOP:    $245 Each Person  DR. MITCH & LISA                                                                 (TWO PROFESSIONALS - 60 Minutes)                (Total $490)        (40 Years Experience)

***RAPID RECOVERY COUPLES  WORKSHOP:    $275 Each Person  DR. MITCH & LISA                                                                 (TWO PROFESSIONALS - 75 Minutes)                 (Total $550)          (40 Years Experience)


         *******************************PROGRAM WORKSHOPS GOALS************************************

 1) ACCELERATES Your Healing Immediately (Pathway to Forgiveness) 

 2) TEACH & Provide Knowledge about your Relationship   

 3) DEMONSTRATE  & LEARN Communication (Couples Rules & Skills) 

  4) LEARN the ART of a Deeper Love (Intimacy, Sensitivity & Compassion)  

   5) LEARNING to Set Goals, Realistic Expectations & Boundaries 

  ***********************************************SEMINAR********************************************************************                                                                                                                                             

 ***SECRETS OF A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP:           Dr. MITCH & LISA

                                ********DEMONSTRATE  **TEACH**  EDUCATE**********

        TOPIC'S INCLUDE:

                             ***THE  ART of:   SENSITIVITY ** COMPASSION** EMPATHY                                                                                                                                          HEALING *FORGIVENESS *LETTING GO  PROCESS                                                                                                                        COMMUNICATION SKILLS **LISTENING *GASLIGHTING                                                                                                        ANGER and HURT **CONTROL ISSUES                                                                                                                                                  DEVELOP A DEEPER LOVE and INTIMACY                                                                                                                                            NARCISSISM *** CO-DEPENDENCY                                                                                                                                                            ALCOHOL and ADDICTIONS

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           ****CANCELLATION POLICY*****

 We do have our  Cancellation Policy (pay the price for the session), for not Canceling within 48 hours of your appointment time. Thank you for understanding, as we have many clients that we have to turn away, due to our busy practice.

                                                         *****AFTERCARE/LIFE COACHING***                                                                                                                         This Program is Designed to follow you through your Life Journey. We stay with you even after you Graduate from our Program. We will Continue to Guide  you for as long as you want us to, by coming back to us every so often for a TUNE-UP.

                           ***All Our Telehealth Sessions Are Confidential & Always HIPAA COMPLIANT***

                                                                   *******INSURANCE******

Since Couples/Marriage Workshops are Not Covered by Insurance, you Do Not have to deal with Authorizations or Referrals & Never have to deal with an Annual Max. from your Insurance Company. We Do Accept your HSA (Health Savings Plan) or FLEX ACCOUNTS.                                                                                                                                                                                         In Addition, many of our Clients use their Insurance for Individual Therapy & then come to us for the Couples Workshops ( Since an Individual Therapist Cannot do both  (UNETHICAL ) as Most Individual Therapist refer to us, for all their Couples & Marriages  Counseling.                                        














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